get used to be alone

A woman said "Get used to be alone!" in the morning drama last Saturday.
I've taken note of the words for a long time.

To be honest, I sometimes feel lonely.
At first I used to make an effort to make friends such as joining some activities and so on when I moved to a new place. And then I had some friends, but several years later I had to move out there and I rarely get a chance to see them again. I'm far away from them.
Thus, it's over and over again.

Eventually, I don't make an effort to make friends any longer now. However I've learned that when I've lived in one place for more than five years I always become friends whom I want to get along with for the rest of my life. It's a hardship to move out and say goodbye to them.

I don't have any sisters, nor any daughters. And my hometown is far away, so are my relatives and my old friends.
I have to move again and again. Will I live alone after losing my husband in the future?
I have to get used to be alone.
The personnel reshuffle announcement of my husband's company will have next week again.
I've been uneasy these days.
I really want to settle down.


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Hi, this is りこ from コト、モノ、時間。
Thank you for visiting my blog.

I sometimes get lonely as well.......
My home country and my close people are so faraway~~~~.
You are not the only one. ^^

The south Island where I live is PENANG in Malaysia.

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Hi, りこ.

Thank you for encouraging and telling me where you live.
Yes, I'm not the only one. And I think it's good to live in a lot of places.
You seem to enjoy your life according to your blog. I'd like to visit Penang someday.



Welcome to my blog.
I'm married and we have a son. I live in Hokkaido, Japan.
I like handmade things and Ikebana(arranging flowers).
I hope that you enjoy my articles and photos.

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